Valentine's Week !
World is celebrating 'valentines week'. The week of love. Its gooood! People have something to distract themselves from this cruel world and spend some time with 'beloved'. This made me think about 'love' and here's what i came up with.
Love is something that has been largely misinterpreted by people out there. It is only being restricted to physical attraction and infatuation. The 'couple goals' are the people who seem beautiful to us on instagram, or those who show their love publicly, or if a boy decorates a table in a cafe etc..
Well, what i think is: it is waaaayyy beyond this. It is when you just feel a deeper level of connection with someone. Even if you go days without any form of talking or connection, you are assured that no matter what, nothing can set you apart from him/her. It is not the butterflies in stomach, but a sense of calmness when you're with them. It is beyond materialism. It is level of understanding, compatibility, comfort, and melancholic moments.
Arre bhai, even a stranger can be physically attracted, feel comfort in happiness or feel mysterious/adventurous... but that's not love man.
You know its love when you're comfortable in your saddest moments. It's love when you can share hours of boredom with ease. It's love when your mundane life is okay because of them.. Adventure, sex, happiness are very temporary things. What matters is the things mentioned above. 2-3 coffee par jaakar, make-out kar ke if you're falling in love with people, then you should definitely go through a self introspection, my friend.
Barack-Michelle Obama... Bill-Melinda Gates... Narayan-Sudha Moorthy!! These are real couple goals.. They were with each other when they were nothing.. and look at them today...!! Not those 'virat-anushka' or 'brangelina' or some pretentious shit.. xD I might have old school thoughts, but i'm adamant of them.. I personally feel that, once you get money/fame, you can charm anyone. Everyone would want to have you as husband/wife. But the 'true' relationships are the ones who started from the bottom and still go strong..! So, if there's any person who comes in your minds after all this - grab onto them. It is very hard to find.
Zyada ho gaya ye lol.. But yeah, I do have a serious side to me as well.. (those who know me, I'm mostly serious..). Don't let my social media fool you ;)
Challllo, till the next time.
Yours truly <3
Love is something that has been largely misinterpreted by people out there. It is only being restricted to physical attraction and infatuation. The 'couple goals' are the people who seem beautiful to us on instagram, or those who show their love publicly, or if a boy decorates a table in a cafe etc..
Well, what i think is: it is waaaayyy beyond this. It is when you just feel a deeper level of connection with someone. Even if you go days without any form of talking or connection, you are assured that no matter what, nothing can set you apart from him/her. It is not the butterflies in stomach, but a sense of calmness when you're with them. It is beyond materialism. It is level of understanding, compatibility, comfort, and melancholic moments.
Arre bhai, even a stranger can be physically attracted, feel comfort in happiness or feel mysterious/adventurous... but that's not love man.
You know its love when you're comfortable in your saddest moments. It's love when you can share hours of boredom with ease. It's love when your mundane life is okay because of them.. Adventure, sex, happiness are very temporary things. What matters is the things mentioned above. 2-3 coffee par jaakar, make-out kar ke if you're falling in love with people, then you should definitely go through a self introspection, my friend.
Barack-Michelle Obama... Bill-Melinda Gates... Narayan-Sudha Moorthy!! These are real couple goals.. They were with each other when they were nothing.. and look at them today...!! Not those 'virat-anushka' or 'brangelina' or some pretentious shit.. xD I might have old school thoughts, but i'm adamant of them.. I personally feel that, once you get money/fame, you can charm anyone. Everyone would want to have you as husband/wife. But the 'true' relationships are the ones who started from the bottom and still go strong..! So, if there's any person who comes in your minds after all this - grab onto them. It is very hard to find.
Zyada ho gaya ye lol.. But yeah, I do have a serious side to me as well.. (those who know me, I'm mostly serious..). Don't let my social media fool you ;)
Challllo, till the next time.
Yours truly <3
So you mean that if I meet a guy when he possesses all the luxuries, and I fall in love with him, that's not love?
ReplyDeleteNo, i'm not cherrypicking stuff. But yes, once someone (generally a guy) has materialistic possessions, MANY girls (not every) find love in him. That's a harsh truth :/.
DeleteBtw, thanks for taking the time and reading this :)